Explained by Yisus Ro, who focuses his expertise on the running Twin. 🙂 Translation by Gaby. Enjoy. ❤
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A "runner" is in crisis when he feels the strong energy of his partner, and this overwhelms him. Usually they come to me and say:
"Doctor, I don't know what to do, this woman makes me feel bad, but something still draws me to her!"
"I cannot leave her, I want to see her but fear doesn't let me!"
I then tell them this is good, and they look at me upset: "How can you say it's good, doctor?" I then proceed by explaining the following to them:
"Because she is your complementary half, how not to be attracted by your other half? You want to be with her but your fears and sense of logic are strong: this is something that goes beyond science, it is the time when your inner self screams: you must wake up!"
When you feel the crisis within you, this is merely your spiritual awakening, don't blame your partner. It is called the mirroring effect: what is it that bothers you? What are you so afraid of? Your partner helps you to look within yourself, it's time to heal! Your fear is not towards her: look at yourself, look inside. Be determined, she is the biggest gift to you, to support you and heal you. You have gifted it to her.
So, what do you feel? There is rage, anger, guilt, doubt, but this is good, it is a warning that you have to look inside of yourself and resolve, take a moment for yourself and keep sharing with her. She is your complementary half, but the crisis inside tells you that there is something unresolved within yourself. The feelings of persecution make you feel uncomfortable because it is not easy to accept that you carry unresolved issues.
Yes, you are rejecting, but not your partner. Your logical mind says you are, but the reality is that all you have to reject is what you no longer need to carry as a burden (fear, anger, etcetera).
Start enjoying your life, take some time for yourself, do what you love, share it! As long as you resist, the crisis inside is painful. Indulge yourself in the peace that allows you to open up to your complementary half. It is your free will, but once this "running" stage ends you will feel released. You caused the same effects within her, the same fear, and triggered her healing process. She did not blame you, and knew this would help her to take a look at herself. Now, it's your turn.
You set her free, let her set you free. You are each other's complements. She is healing, you have to heal as well. If you share your path, this is the perfect way! Evolve and don't be afraid. Truthfully, all this time you have really been running from yourself, and not from anyone else. Together you can achieve a lot. "
Inspired Awareness 
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Thank you Angave 🙂
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My TF is more of a runner than I am. However, I kind of understand the “reason” why they run and stay in the current marriage or relationship where they feel safe or it’s familiar. There are times I feel like rekindling my marriage to hide from the pain or connection. My soul made it very clear to me though what I needed to do. Once I figured it out that I had self ordained pain from not being true to myself and did what I knew I had to do (end my current soul contract), I felt so free and happy!
Whatever pain I feel now is due to twin separation or just missing him. Will he stop running and figure out we are ONE and deal with his own issues rather than hide in his current relationship? I don’t know… But I can tell you even if I felt remotely tempted to do the same, reality is the pain will continue no matter how much you resist or try to ignore. You will also realize that your current relationship is no longer fulfilling or satisfyingly because TF vibration and frequency is different than the old 3d. This is why TF belong together. Period. I wish more TF would realize this and STOP the nonsense and game-playing. If you were witness to this amazing strong love, why would you not choose it?! What are you afraid of?!
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It is like our friend says, they are scared of the mirror that makes them see what they don´t want to see in themselves, it is a process, and as we heal, they heal, and they slowly will release the fear, we don´t know how long it will take, but if we focus in ourselves and let them go,, we are giving a big step towards their awakening and our reunion, it´s hard and takes time, but it´´s possible, Hugs and love :
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And I would like to add that after I figured out he was my TF, I saw that my TF and I were both married so I figured then that I should try and use this energy and love to heal my current marriage. Yeah. It didn’t work. Actually things got worse = not meant to be. Plus all the while I am trying to save my current marriage guess where all of my thoughts and heart was?! Yep. My twin flame. So how fair is that to your partner? My heart, desire, thoughts, love, hope, dreams all belong to my twin. I felt like I was “cheating” or leading this dual life. So if your twin is running, don’t despair. Heal yourself and move on. If they join us, AWESOME! If they never figure it out, you are still just as special and important. Your light and love still shines and can still impact all you come in contact with. But realize too that you are meeting your twin for a purpose and one way or another, the universe will bring this union to fruitation as divinely destined. 🙂
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yes, faith and trust are very important in this path, heart knows, and the soul knows why it will not work with anybody else, this is not a punishment, we´re meant to reunite, but we need to heal first, 🙂
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Thank you, Angave.. ❤
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🙂 you´re welcome
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It’s a very strange twist of events to be the runner, when initially I was the chaser…. Boy he could run. Fled when he saw me! I email him every now and then since we parted ways, because I wanted him to know that I was here and would always be here for him, no matter what. He would never reply… except once, just recently. That was huge for me…
I didn’t want to overwhelm him with what I was feeling so I have taken things very slow. I am an intense person in normal situations, so imagine how I feel about my twin! I have to reign myself in to not steamroll a person. I’m more tidal wave than human being, when it comes to being in love. I am afraid to drown this person in my genuine sincere affection. If he was to unlock the door to my heart, I fear that’s what will happen. Out comes a tsunami and I literally knock him dead. This is why I have held myself back.
In defence of runners… we have our reasons to pull back. Yes, we have issues. And yes, we’re working on them, diligently. I don’t know how to face my twin, honestly. He has been in hot pursuit of me. I feel like I’ve been backed into a corner and the only way out is to fight. It’s not a good feeling, to be in this position. As much as I love him, I don’t want to be taken by force. To me this is not love but lust fuelled desire. This is what I run from…. because I want a love that shoots me straight in the heart – no other part of my body. If I feel my twin anywhere other than my heart, I will continue to run.
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Anyone struggling with their Twin Flame connection as I am (I’m the chaser) should read the story “The Alchemist” by Paulo Coelho. It eased my pain and heartache literally overnight. I do feel I was guided towards reading this book at a time when my faith was becoming weaker by the day and the pain and despair I felt towards my situation was becoming unbearable. Please read it if you haven’t already, I promise you won’t be dissapointed. If it can help ease the pain of even one person who reads it then I know this post will have been worth it. Love to you all.
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Thank you, it´s a good advise, very interesting, sure the book will be. Greetings, love and faith in your path 🙂
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I believe I met my twinflame 6 years ago, now I think that he is still running from me That guy was on my highschool, before I met him in person, I had dreams of a mysterious blond tall boy who came and kiss me because of nothing and then disappeared. In the next 2 years he and I were in highschool in different classes, he was 1 year older, I didn’t know his name and I didn’t care at all! Because I was with other guys.
But I always found that blond boy beautiful,and I was searching for him in the hallway to take a look and that was enough for me. The problems was that he was looking for me, he knew my name! He was nervous when we were closer, and was trembling and I was shocked, he looked at me like he knew me! One time he said he knew where was my house, and I was scared. He used to touch me in my arm and shoulders from the back and then say “Hi” smile, and then he would go away. After that 2 years I was in the last year and he was in College. One of my “boyfriends” left me and I was devasted because I realized that I was betrayed.
Then the blond guy and I began to meet in the most unexpected times and places and it was like always, he could be quiet and stare to me for minutes, and say nothing, and I was afraid. But I asked his name and I added him on facebook, I found out that he was in a relationship for 3 years! I felt really awkward and angry, so I didn’t talk to him and just ignored him after he accepted my request. Then he was online in msn, and his profile picture was he and his girlfriend in the beach, then a window would pop up and it was he saying hello, and changed his picture for one of him alone.
I thought he was a liar and that never liked me at all, he must be laughing at me beacuse he always had a girlfriend and he must thought I was an idiot to fall for him. I was in rage angainst myself and said nothing to him because I would never show myself weak or devasted. After some days, he apologized to me, and said that he never wanted to hurt me or abuse me, and that he was feeling very bad all the time, I didn’t know what was he talking about, because I never showed him that I liked him, I felt shocked like he could read my mind, and I ignored the things he said and pretended that I never minded nothing and that we could be friends, beacuse I was proud, I´m still a proud person.
One night I had a dream, I was in a train station and I was about to leave, and then he was running to me and kissed me and then he went away and turned back to look at me, then I woke up. That morning, his facebook status was “single” I went to the market in the afternoon and he was there! I looked at him and he was petrified and was staring at me in silence, then I felt weird and ignored him.
After two days we had a date, the ONLY official date, in that moment, I was looking at him and I was feeling so strange… like I never loved him! I thought I wanted to run, that he wasn’t what I wanted and that I didn’t needed him anymore and rejected his kiss I felt fear and revulsion form one hour to another. That night I felt anxiety and I threw my cellphone in the washing machine, I didn’t wanted to speak with him and wanted to be far away from him. That night his facebook status was that wasn’t his day and that it was the worst mistake of our lives, and he deleted his account.
It took me 1 month to realize that, I needed him closer, and that I never loved anyone but him, that he always had been there and I couldn’t see it. The dreams began to tormenting me, were almost everyday, and I found his new facebook profile, he accepted my request, but wasn’t the same. I began to call him, and he never picked up, I felt devasted. His status were like he was angry about a person, like he was feeling betrayed and abandoned, and said that he would never turn back anymore. I thought it was about his ex girlfriend, and I felt angry at him again. Then, one day I left him a voice message saying that I “liked him” only, because I didn’t wanted to tell I “loved you” because I’m proud and never used the word love for anyone and I was feeling shame.
The next morning his status was “I made up my mind, you will never had my love, beacuse you never loved me for real, we must live our lives like nothing would have happened before and I was only a beautiful memory for you, someday I will meet you again, everywhere.” I DIDN’T GET IT, so I instantly felt betrayed and began to ignore him and blocked him and had been 6 years, we had met in the bus, the college and in market and I never said hello to him again, neither he, just keep staring at me for minutes and I still feeling the shaking and trembling thing in silence. Sometimes he add me on facebook and I accept him and then I block him, and then later, the same thing almost every year. I know that he is in a relationship and me too, but we are so different, we always were different, he was the shy and diligent guy and I love to live freely and to have multiple partners and experiences, I can’t take suffering! that why I don’t want to feel nothing for him anymore! In that year when we became closer, I never felt attraction or desire to other men, and that wasn’t me! I never felt that way, before him, I was always searching for thrill and I liked anyone. I want to forget him, and never ever have that dreams again, are like nightmares because they torture me, and always when I dream with him, that day I met him in the street and I don’t like that! I want to live my life like before, I want my old life back, I guess I’m still a proud person.
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