So many times we feel pain and suffering within ourselves and we forget that our Twin Flame is also suffering.
They feel trapped in confusion of which they cannot escape: more than once they feel it is like a punishment, a maze with no exit.
They feel a tremendous attraction for their Twin Flame (us), but don’t want to admit it, deceive their counterparts and deceive themselves, trying to make themselves and their surroundings believe that it is not happening, that it does not make sense, that it soon will be over.
Many of them have a history of suffering in the aspect of love and relationships; many of them built a wall around themselves due to disappointments and deceptions: a wall that they aren’t willing to let collapse: no way!
These may have been karmic relationships with kindred souls, that have presented them with the lessons they agreed to live, to make them stronger, evolve, and also brought to light those wounds that they needed to heal.
But not being aware of it, maybe all they feel they have learned is that love is “bad”, hurtful, and they are not willing to go through this again.
And then comes … their Twin Flame;
– that being who has got the energy that reminds them of all those failed relationships and even seems to have a bit of each of them, it’s like … all in one!
– for whom they feel a magnetism impossible to avoid, and again the ghosts of fear to love and suffering come to haunt their thoughts again. And love is born, inevitably, and although they try to resist it with all their might, it has no return…
What can we do, how can we help them ?
Only with pure, and UNCONDITIONAL LOVE.
Never force them, if we even need to leave them, we have to do so, because love is freedom, and respect for their decisions. We will never show true love if we try to impose on their lives.
We just have to let them know that they have us, always there, maybe we can confess our love to them, but after we have to give them the space to decide what to do with this truth that now they know, so they can learn to believe and trust, to discover that real love NEVER HURTS, and NEVER betrays …
Only unconditionally we will show them, that our love is pure, loyal and true.
Time will prove it , and they will see, their hearts will show them.
Count on it because it’s a Divine love.
Angave.
Inspired Awareness 
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Beautiful… thank you Angave 🙂
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Hi Angels ! What your saying is very true, but it requires immense courage to let go , to be able to see you TF with someone else and still wish good for them. I sometimes doubt that they go through even an ounce of the amount of pain we go thorugh , or atleast they dont show , except that they keep coming back. I saw my TF with someone else and this time i felt a little stronger than before because of the work i had done on myself. I feel i face my worst nighmares and now somewhere i feel freed from the fear i was long carrying inside me. But still , when i think of my TF , it looks like endless and presently i cannot see the other side of the shore. It will be a very long night….
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It´s completely understandable, Phoenix. All of us passed through this periods of darkness. Just focus on yourself, the most you can, to feel good with yourself, I´m not telling you that you have to forget your twin, you just need to detach, and let him go, in peace, and feel the love within your heart. Try not to think in these things that low your vibrations, (like imagine your twin with another person), it will never help you, only you will get stuck in a sort of wheel of negativity that never stops and only can hurt you.
Just focus in the best moments with your twin, these things that made you happy, that things that you love. But detached, and releasing. Try to no obsess with all the things that hurt you, please, because you will never get out of this that way…
Love yourself, pamper yourself, do things that make you feel good, in your escence, that make you feel worthy, because you ARE.
And you know it. It´s not easy, it seems to be just words, but it´s necessary, you have to bloom like a flower and you´ll see the changes, from inside out.
Remember you´re not alone, your ANgels and Guides are with you, ask for them, and their advises, they will be always there for you, just contact them through your heart, and ask for healing, for you and your twin, in perfect and divine time. You will receive the answers, and the necessary strenght to keep on your center, and growing, without sadness, and totally full of hope, because you deserve the best, and the pain soon will end, we´re here to be happy, remember that.
We send you much love, and count with us ❤
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Hi to all the lonely and loving twinhalves!
We were only together for just a few days over four months, seperated for more than 3 months now. No contact whatsoever since then. He wanted to go back to his ex but at the last minute she refused (they broke up a month before we met). I thought that fact would make him learn real fast but no such thing happened.
Since I was a little girl I had this blueprint, knowing how the one looked that was meant to be with me. I found him after almost 52 years and had to loose him so soon after that. He told me he felt he knew me for centuries, I felt the same. I can write a book about that blueprint, so many signs, feelings. knowing. Everytime I start to doubt about him, maybe it was all just in my mind and stuff like that, all I have to do is think back and I know…How very beautifull meeting him was, the love I felt, the recognition, everything about it, it sometimes feels that it was all for nothing. Such a short time, so much pain… I know he is contacting the ex before the ex now. Does he really feel the suffering I do? I don’t know. I tried to start dating again, I couldn’t go through with it. Not even with the man I was crazy about before I met him.
Sometimes I feel like such a fool. On the other hand (I have 5 fingers too) I went through such a journey within myself, learned so much, found out so much. I am still learning and loving every minute of that. Getting to know myself, value myself inside and out.
I don’t know if we will meet again in this lifetime but I know that someday we will be together for eternity. That we will make a journey together then, looking back atall our former lives, seeing where we met and what we did with all those lives, what was the purpose, what we did we have to learn… Yes, this is divine love, but you’ll have to be strong enought to live it… One of the things I learned.
I just wish I could share all I learned in these last 3 months with him. And yes, I have let go. I still feel this love for him, each and every day. I really doubt he is feeling the same, since I know he didn’t think it was true when he left me. And that while he was the one who felt it so strong. Anyway, I have to go through this alone, I think he is hiding from himself. I hope he will find his happiness anyway, with or without me. And I hope he will be true to his self. That’s the only way, look and really see, really feel and deal with it… Hard? Yes! Rewarding? Even more so!
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Hi Ria, ,wonderful and wise words :). Yes the reward is beyond our imagination, and if we´re strong enough and learn the lessons successfully, we will get it. The reward and the responsibility, Twins are meant to rise the planetary vibration, change the old templates and paradigms, sometimes they have a mission together, healers, and many become teachers. because of the same path, the experience, is like an initiation, in the twin flame path we have to pass through all the proofs, we learn really in all aspects, and become wiser, and wiser, at every moment.
When we have learned enough, the path starts to clear and the obstacles seem to dissapear, in magical ways, it is amazing, so never loose the hope, maybe he, needs to experience and learn through another soulmates which who he has contracts, they are meant to help to his evolution, but if he´s your twin, once learned the lessons, that persons will leave, and his soul will need yours, because you´re one.
You´re making good, learning to love yourself, and letting him go, you´re loving him unconditionally, even wishing his happiness, your soul becomes stronger, and you grow every day, 🙂 thank you for your comment, we hope our words to be helpful for you and your path, Love and hugs.
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Thanks for handholding me for so long. I am obliged. I do feel the change and have started to feel unconditionally for him. I wish him happiness. Thanks again angels. Ever so thankful 🙂
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❤ 🙂 everything will be OK, in divine and perfect time, just trust
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i know how it feels, i am the chaser and i struggle everyday trying to tell myself that i need to deal and heal and not keep “chasing”. I am in great pain every single day and she knows how i feel. She will ask me if im doing okay, am i meant to lie? im not sure what im meant to say to her.
To me it seams like she isnt struggling at all, she tells me she is in a good place and happy. But she still cant even look at me, she wont make eye contact. She once told me she wants nothing to do with me anymore but would then contact me like a week later. I guess this article makes me realise that she could be in pain too, but doesnt want to admit it.
I wish her all the happiness in the world and ive told her that her happiness is important to me, im just not sure how to respond to her. Ive slowly started this healing and whilst i want to “chase” every minute of everyday im trying not to. How do i respond to her? Do i cease all contact or make a friendly chats to her?
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I have been feeling days of pain and suffering. The only thought I have is I need to let go and walk away. Love and set free…
Longing for him hurts and walking away hurts. I’m not sure how I can even win in this situation… But I’m no longer going to impose. He knows I love him immensely. That is all I can do and say. The rest is up to him. I’m ready before he is.
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I know how you feel, my pain and suffering has been a few months now. I am only learning now how to deal with things a little better. Longing for her hurts, and walking away is purely impossible for me to do. Im ready, and yes i have to wait for her to be ready. She knows i love her beyond anything else in this world. She still contacts me once a week, we cant go more than 2 weeks without talking (max has been 10 days).
Its a very superficial situation when we do talk, but i think thats all she can manage at this stage. She has run from the feelings but im not quite sure if she is able to run ffrom me completely.. what this means, your guess is as good as mine.
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Well at least you two talk. I don’t even get that… No communication on his part at all. It’s frustrating and hurtful. Makes me feel like I’m not as special or important to him. I Can’t help but to want more than our telepathy love… And he’s not giving it up past intense loving eye contact.
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I can never run from him completely. It’s impossible for me to do as well. Just the idea is tempting when it hurts so bad. If he ever contacted me for once, I’d melt in his arms like butter. I love him more than words can ever express. He’s my world. My life. My everything.
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Its actually quite hard when she still contacts me, i mean i love talking to her and everytime we talk it brings back everything, it makes me happy. All i would like to do is make her realise what we have, and bring her back into my arms. All i want to say everytime we talk is how much she means to me, how much i want her back and how much i love her and always will. It takes all of my strength to not do this, and essentially wait for her to be ready.
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HI, and why don´t you do that?, just tell her, let your fellings flow, and just relax about it, evrything will be OK, and you will feel your spirit free, LOVE and LIGHT
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Its been a few months of this backwards and forwards business, about 6-8 weeks ago i completely told her how i felt. She told me it was too overwhelming and essentially called me obsessive. This is when she wanted to stop talking to me and essentially cut me out of her life (although it lasted maybe a week and a half before we spoke again). She knows that i love her and want to be with her, and i thought letting this path run its course is about essentially not chasing her, letting her realise without me telling her.
do you have any advice?
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The answer will be always the same, if you already told her your feelings, you have to let her go, to decide by herself, if she´s your Twin, maybe is not ready by the moment, or maybe both aren´t ready. The best you can do is to detach and keep on growing yourself, at first love yourself enough, because they start to love us when we love ourselves, they reflect us. Chasing her again will only make you feel less self value, and every rejection will hurt you, so, detach, allow her some space to find out her feelings for you and miss you.
And trust in the process, we hope this advise to be helpful for you 🙂
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Thank you for the advice, since learning about all of this and understanding my feelings a little bit more, i have distanced myself from her. She will mostly be the one contacting me, am i meant to just ignore her? obviously she misses me if even she can’t stop herself from talking to me. Ive stopped essentially “chasing” like i used to, but every time we talk i just don’t want the conversation to end and its like i have a little relapse in my strength.
Maybe were both not ready. Maybe its true we both need to learn and love more about ourselves. I definitely believe she is my TF its just a very complicated situation and something thats difficult due to the fact we see each other quite a lot, not on purpose just through our day to day lives. Detaching as such becomes difficult.
i can only learn. Thank you.
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In a dream like state this morning i experienced a meeting with my TF (we have already met and are currently separated with minimal interactions). I had this dream like scenario where she was walking away from me and all she could say was, this hurts me too. As i finally caught up to her, she was crying and telling me that she too is sad about us and is hurting just as much as i am despite her denying it. We sat in each others arms as she explained that she couldnt do this right now, she wanted to move on and possibly has but still loves me and that she is really hurting too.
I woke from this but it wasnt like i had woken from a dream, it was like i just opened my eyes and i was awake. It was a strange occurance. Now im not sure if this is just what my mind is hoping to believe or something more powerful. It gave me a sense of ease and i guess reassurance. But i guess i still dont know if she will ever come back.
I just needed to share my experience with someone who may understand. 🙂
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I’ve looked for somewhere and some people who could possibly help me out finding this site has made me feel a little happier in this incredibly dark place I’ve found myself in.
I am a 23 year old female. I met what I truly believe to be my twin flame just over 6 months ago, we met in incredibly strange circumstances and I felt an almost instant unbreakable bond with her. She had only ever dated men before but later admitted she always wondered why it didn’t feel quite right with them, why she wasn’t interested in their affections or being intimate with them. Anyway, we quickly became inseparable and it was extremely intense from the word go. Our relationship was perfect in every way, until a completely unexpected bombshell, she said she wasn’t ready for the intensity of our relationship and had kissed someone on a night out. She cried, I cried we held each other and for some reason we couldn’t let go, we got over that blip and went back to being us. She had a lot of moments of fear over our relationship, she went on holiday and when she came back we were better than ever and have been since until last week. Last month she left for Thailand which was always planned before we even met. She’s due to come back in December. We Skyped everyday, texted constantly declaring our undying love for each other, her especially. Then out of nowhere she became cold said something had happened with someone and I deserve better. Saying she isn’t ready for this, she doesn’t want us. I feel completely and utterly lost, I feel like I’ve lost my best friend and lover and I just don’t understand. I know her so well, I know deep down she’ll be hurting too but she has distraction I can’t see past this dark place and I don’t want to imagine my life without her. Its so so hard and I feel like my whole world has come crashing down. I feel so depressed and alone. I’ve tried talking to other girls to forget her and I simply can’t! Why is this so hard?! I understand her better than she understands herself yet even I can’t make sense of such a shock. My heart hurts. We said we’d spend the rest of our lives together and now, I’m just here alone. Thanks for reading, feels good to vent.
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Lost: my situation is very similar to yours.. Where are you from?? I’m happy to listen when you need to vent, I know what it was like for me in the very beginning.
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Thank you for your reply lostlove, I didn’t think if here back from anyone let alone someone in a similar situation. I’m from England. We’ve spoken a few times via Facebook and Skype which can be difficult because she often contradicts herself. She has said she loves me and misses me. Today’s been hard, we’ve spoken an I completely threw myself out there for her to say she is staying there unless it goes and I quote, ‘tits up’ how can she just throw this away? It’s so difficult, to the point I sometimes wish I hadn’t met her. I feel like I am experiencing some level of spiritual awakening, maybe this was the purpose of all this. I just feel completely lost. I want my girl back.
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I know all those feelings all to well, it’s interesting to talk to someone close to my own age. I’ve been feeling the pain for nearly a year now..
Email me if you want abit more venting in private.. rainbowskies1812@gmail.com
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A year!
Omg! Does that mean the pain is going to be. Longer than that????
I have been in such a mess for almost a year hoping that it will just go away but nothing change.
This is not what I want at all.
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Can anyone please tell me, does the man ever undergo any pain in these pairings? Or is it that all they do is flaunting their sexual relations and torment the woman? I have only seen the latter in most cases. I am too exhausted emotionally to write anything more. Please understand.
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