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Imagine meeting them.. Your “other half”, your ultimate mirror. The only way is to know it in your heart, and the heart is ecstatic, like true love. Twin Flame love is the most intense and highest achievable kind of love, and it gives you all necessary tools to develop yourself personally. It is a love that is both disorganizing and grand at the same time.
Twin Flames are ‘Universal’ female souls, and ‘Universal’ male souls. When these energies merge, there is an extreme amount of magnetic and spiritual harmony. The Universal Twin Flame love-energy flows sensibly in every cell, they are each other’s ultimate mirror. The pressure of Universal faith brings them together. The Higher Consciousness reconnects them again, and again, sensible in all seven chakra’s. And sensible in the very cosmic energy of the Universe.
The Twin Flame love-energy causes vibrations that allow you to experience unity. It is the energy of the integration from inner polarities, of every individual. Creating and manifesting. The love-vibration between Twin Flames gives mankind a boost, and this will be both visible and sensible. It is time to wake up. It is time for the new Gold Earth.
After meeting your Twin Flame, you awaken spiritually and you learn to love unconditionally. You can be presented with unexplainable, physical discomforts and changes, like an accelerated heart frequency. Also clair-sentience, clair-cognizance and clair-voyance will develop rapidly. Aside from all this, you often experience shifts in your emotional mood that can affect you tremendously: you can go from complete faith and inner knowing, to despair and doubt within minutes. One moment you have complete and utter faith, and the next you don’t believe any of it at all anymore!
Twin Flame-love is not something you can comprehend with your normal intelligence, it expands far beyond any kind of “regular” love and it just happens to you. It is strengthened and guided by the Universe, you cannot choose it, and you are going to have to deal with it. So, no matter how tempting it may sound at times: do not fight it. Receive this intense love and embrace it with a thousand arms. Keep believing in it. Even when you reach the emotional roller coaster. All has been decided prior to incarnating here. Know that you are supposed to do something together, have faith in the promise of reunion and remember that you are dealing with the most intense, highest achievable kind of love that little of us get to experience. The only thing that is important to remember, is that Twin Flame hearts are the tools of love, and only, only the ego can make you believe that you are separated. The brain is ego’s tool.
Twin Flame-love offers you ultimate and optimal personal development, and it is the way of transformation of the heart, and letting go of ego. It is an intense experience, feels undeniably deep and regularly gets you stuck in your emotional world. Misunderstanding, denial, distance and repelling behavior are inherent. To your surroundings you seem enigmatic, the people around you cannot comprehend why you have “suddenly changed all that much”. However, a soul love as huge and intense as this cannot be described with our deficient Earthly vocabulary, and can be incredibly difficult to carry. It touches the core of your soul.
After meeting your Twin you can feel hopelessly lonely and not understood at all. Anything you believed in regarding ‘normal’ love gets crumbled full throttle. The love you know from romantic movies and books requires new insights. You cannot associate yourself with it anymore, and you are no longer able to continue as an individual. You and your Twin are one: a unity, two flames of the fire of life. You are so close, that you seem to be one being. Forever the perfect “double strength” of life. You have been ‘renewed’ in this, forever, again and again. And this is -to say the least- incredibly difficult.
Furthermore, you are to learn to love unconditionally. Unconditional love is the kind of love you experience when you have children. The secret to loving unconditionally, is to try and dismiss ‘if’: you say “I love you.”, and not “I love you, if..” Twin Flame-love goes beyond this, because pure love merely gives, and does not expect anything in return.
We are in the middle of the Aquarius Era. In every ‘now’ new meetings and recognitions occur due to this lightning bolt. To create new love, to expand it. When you experience the truth of your heart, there is no doubt you are half of a Twin Flame couple, that another person exists with you, heartbeat to heartbeat. It is written in your heart, and it moves deeply within your being, far away from any words or concepts.
Twin Flames are the lightworkers in the rhythm on a heart level. They are united to make the cosmic energy dance once again, and burn within the hearts of mankind. Know that reunion will occur. The only reason why the outer world thinks this will not happen, is because they are listening from the wrong frequency, from the wrong station. They are listening to the channel of division.
Are you having doubts of your own? Ask your heart, and listen. Silence your mind, and feel your heart presenting you with the answer. When you are making up answers, thinking them, you are in the wrong place. When you feel the answers, you are right.
During your journey towards your Twin Flame you can get lost in doubt. However, your ‘team’ is always present to confirm again and again that you are on the right track, that you are not crazy. You can experience situations that cannot be caused by mere coincidence. There are many symbolisms connected to this love, from running into their name constantly to intuitive paintings that seem to pass on messages. Twin Flames are rising, whirling and pulsating symbolisms of life.
In the beginning, we had a perfect connection and were perfectly attuned to each other. Together we are returning slowly but steadily, to this wonderful state of unity.
Physical attraction
When you are truly Twin Flames, your entire body knows. It is imbued with this knowing. A fountain of light is what you experience when your bodies merge: the mental body is imbued with this ecstatic energy. Twin Flames have an enormous sense of attraction towards each other: you are left with no choice but to merge. This merge is nothing but the merging of your souls, connecting through your bodies. It is a bundling of energy, of forces, attracting each other through the genitalia.
The sexuality between Twin Flames is -aside from primary, raw- also highly spiritual and therefor ‘divine’. During love making you can experience the sense of acting fully and completely out of instinct: there is a complete surrender. You can sense each other perfectly, and the rhythm of your sacred hearts beats equally. Every sense of barrier, blockage and shame is completely dismissed. Because of this physical merging there is no need to exchange words, as words would bring down this intense experience. Basically, this is a sexual, sacred merge you have never experienced this way before.
In case of merging, in love and complete acceptance, you may also experience staring into each other’s eyes until everything around you fades away. This is a form of osmosis, in which energie is transferred from one to the other, and vice versa. This is why, at first, you communicate through the eyes, and not through other body parts. The eyes are the windows of the soul..
Twin Flames are one, and have always been one, but when they merge they become one soul (again). This may cause losing track of who is who. The individuality ceases to exist: you are one with your Twin, and you can feel this unity.
When this infinite love is connected to the heart, and when lower instincts are overcome, a transformation from the consciousness will occur.
The ‘honeymoon phase’
After the very first (physical) ‘reunion’, a short silence between the Twin Flames follows. Often, this is meant as preparation for the ‘honeymoon-phase’: the phase of extreme amorousness, fully and completely getting lost in each other, discovering each other on a physical (and sexual) level. The honeymoon-phase is an intense, torrid period in which one completely surrenders to the other, because they feel like they ‘came home’. As half of a Twin Flame couple, deep inside you know ‘finally, I have found him / her.” However, you do not completely understand what has truly happened to you.
Unfortunately the honeymoon-phase for each Twin -especially the one who is aware of the connection- lasts way too short: the “newly rendez-vous” lasts roughly between two and six months. After this period, the first cracks start to show, and the Twin Flame couple falls back into pulling and pushing: a phase that can lasts for months, if not years.
Pulling and pushing
In the pulling and pushing phase, you will mainly have to deal with sensations of homesickness, the feeling of being amputated, and you cannot understand why the love between you seems to have ‘ended’ so suddenly. An ‘ending’ is, of course, a creation of the brain, because the brain constantly tries to find ‘reasons and understanding’. You simply cannot explain with your logically reasoning brain. And that is, certainly, perfectly human. However, it will not work. And the fact that this will not work is the complete and utter truth, because Twins are energetically one, on a soul level.
When you (seemingly) are hurt by your Twin, this can cause the well-known pulling and pushing, also known as the ‘runner and chaser’ dynamic. We are programmed for this phase of ‘running and chasing’, and of course this does serve a purpose. But at a certain point, the perfect Universal moment, the phase of pulling and pushing stops. After this, if concluded in your blueprint, you go into the bridging period. If this bridging period occurs after the pulling and pushing phase, it means you are not ready to commit to a relationship on a human level: a ‘journey inwards’ is an absolute necessity.
Before you incarnated on earth, you have decided together which roads you would walk. Especially this often causes misunderstanding, tension and confusion. Try to remain centered, in your own power and observe intuitively. It is a fallacy to think of your Twin as someone who could hurt you. Try to look at the incomplete, not-healed parts of yourself. Those are your main lessons! The integration process will take time. Rome was not built in a day either, you see? Open yourself up, undergo, experience.
Many Twin Flames are convinced that it is the other, or the connection itself causing so much pain, but what they do not realize is that it’s really themselves. So, when you attract each other, and then push away again, you experience over and over the ‘conditional’ love brings the incomplete, not-healed parts of yourself to the surface. Even though you do not see each other (a lot) in this phase.
To eventually achieve unity (on a physical level) basically, the awakening of both the male and female consciousness and your own wholeness is necessary. Everything deep within you is connected to emotional pain, not feeling loved or accepted. Therefore, you are presented with a chance to heal this. Also, you ‘learn’ how to function separately from your Twin, to feel just as good and whole alone as with them. When you can cherish your Twin from joy, love them unconditionally and are able to naturally allow them to walk their own paths, you have gained another Universal diploma.
Never forget the energetic exchange from that very first moment, the very first time you locked eyes. The moment you felt yourself coming home. You cannot rationalize this away. Always remain centered, within your own energy. It already requires enough of you to remain standing to begin with: a lot is being expected from you. You are to renew the image of love, and aside from that you are expected to show this love. You will be left with many question marks, but turn these question marks into exclamation marks. In short: keep having faith and surrender. You cannot influence the process, and you cannot influence your Twin.
You are to lift the veil of illusion, and the veil of separation because you are always one with your Twin Flame. The connection of the soul is the actual truth of this bond.
The bridging period
After the pulling and pushing phase, you sense distance is being created between the two of you, and that you seem to have ‘lost’ each other (energetically). This bridging period is meant to unite each other’s polarities. You know who your other half is, you have sensed him (or her) and you have seen right through them. Make sure you stay true to yourself in this period, and always remember you are one: one split soul divided over two different bodies. Should we have been together with our Twin Flame from day one, we would not have been able to look inside ourselves this deeply, to find our own being, our own consciousness. This temporary separation is necessary, because it is the only way we will be able to reunite with our other half. The souls are already entangled, and living together from pure love.
In this bridging period, or ‘silent’ period, you have to make sure that love for yourself dominates at all time. If you sense this is not the case yet, you are to work on your self-love. This could also very well be the way to self-love and self-respect. We have been programmed to grow as an individual during this time of separation.
This transformation occurs separately, individually, so that all can be clarified and united. Remember you are never cut off from your Twin. Remember your individuality has served a purpose, and was never the core of this love. Remember you are meant to reunite, if this has been concluded in your blueprint.
The ego of your soul love is not in any way stronger that the will of the cosmos. Or, differently phrased; the will of the ego is not in any way stronger than the will of the soul! The soul desires love and harmony. If you had been ready for each other now, you would have already been together. So, there are still parts of you that require healing.
No, you will not lose each other: you are one, a two-unity. Your connection will never end, it is constant. You are dealing with a sacred contract, a sacred marriage, it has been prenatally decided to meet your other half in this incarnation. Complaints can be turned in in triple at the gates of heaven. However, due to your soul love, you will commit to a most wonderful relationship with yourself!
Due to your (limited) ‘free choice’ not a single psychic or medium can tell you when you will reunite. This is up to you, and up to your other half, and also depends on dealing with other matters beneath the surface. You can -just as your soul love- commit to your soul path. Remember: “the goal is not your learning school, it is the road towards it that manifests the greatest lessons of all: it causes you to grow, and growing hurts.” Should you know when exactly you would reunite with your Twin, you would lean back, sit, and wait until this moment arrives. But then, you simply would not grow. So, we are to eliminate all these conditionings, expectations, and the desire to know how it will ‘end’, because we would stand in our own way and dismiss what still needs to go through our souls.
All these difficulties are in facts tests for our indigence, therefore we are to return to this connection on a soul level. If you do this and acknowledge this, you will elevate yourself to a higher vibration: the preparation of our own growth, and experiencing unity with your Twin Flame and your soul family.
Twin Flames will fully reunite when pure love is reflected. Only then, they will come together, through mutual love. They have to be open from the heart to be able to love, and not block this, or deny it.
To clarify: transforming is a long and slow process, especially for the ‘crowd outside’, no matter how close they are to you. Waiting to complete this transformation would not be a wise thing to do. Waiting also means influencing, and in general has a very delaying effect on the transformation process. One who waits, does not live in the moment, but wants something from it: especially something the moment is not offering. In fact, you are telling this moment: “you better hurry up, and be where I want you to be as quickly as possible”. By doing this, you are throwing dirt in your own eyes. Patience and faith are your only rocks to hold onto.
The Twin Flame journey really is about constant surrender to every now-moment, keeping in touch with the vision and emotion from the inside, of what is developing and will be in this life. Everything is unfolding in utter perfection, and it really is our own perception that wants to see this otherwise.
Disclaimer: all rights go to Caroline from http://www.carmacoaching.nl
Jasmine said:
Wow very good read. I’ve been trying to let go of someone and have just wanted to know when it will be better again. I’ve always felt that if we can let go of the negative and be within love that we’d be together. I don’t know if he’s my twin- it’s been on my mind for a while. I’ve never known love like this and my mind is infuriated with him but still I love him more than life. We’ve been through the motions of bliss and psychic connection, arguments that drove us both mental, separation, coming together and now I have to let him go (he’s lost and won’t work with me on anything because he’s given up on love- it seems. And I have a lot to let go). I’m scared and I don’t know why. I know we both need to love ourselves, and I know life will spin him in the right direction and it will take time, but I’m worried too. I just want to be with him along his journey.. I guess I really just want to know what’s going to happen.. And your words are wise in that thinking isn’t going to help (lol I should’ve known that by now.. It’s the reason he broke up with me too). I guess I’m kind of thinking if I should convince myself if he’s bad news and make it easier on myself- But I don’t want to – but what if it’s true? what if the meaning of our relationship is all in my head?.. I’ve figured out that I always pushed because I felt that love would melt the ego, but I was looking to him for unconditional love instead of myself, and that’s probably why it’s hard to let him go. But maybe I’m idealistic and further along spirtially then him and any relationship has that potential? I just want to be close with him. And I want to be closer. But maybe that’s obsessive? I can’t tell. And even though I know better we still meet and can’t keep our hands off each other. I guess I just really want to talk to him about all of this and my feelings but then we’ll reach the same conclusion- space.. I think I’m scared that after him I’ll never have that.. Something.. Again… And to be honest, I don’t know if it’s the same on his side. I know he’ll always love me and comes to me for comfort but he doesn’t trust me and blames me for his pain- which I won’t take onboard anymore and doesn’t make complete sense.. Any advice ?? Or thoughts would be greatly appreciated. Thank you!!:) (sorry it’s so long!)
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Jasmine said:
No definitely he’s in the feeling of not caring anymore – he doesn’t want to.. You know whether it’s twin flame relationship or not it’s confusing and your articles are priceless :))
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angave said:
Hi, Jasmine, we are glad you´re here :).
Twin flame love is not easy, although it´s a real gift, the most bigger gift the Divine gave you in this life, you had the privilege to meet here and now in this current incarnation.
Regarding to be sure if he´s or not your twin, only your soul knows, we encourage you to ask the Divine, your Guides, through meditation, and make of maditation a discipline, it will help you to develop your intuition and inner wisdom.
About your twin, he´s got his own path, you can´t do anything to force things, just love him unconditionally, and work in yourself, your spiritual growing, your improvement, enjoy the things you like in your life, distract, find your purpose.
When you reach that vibration miracles can happen, you fullfill yourself, you become WHOLE, you will be connected with your Guides and they will give you signs along the path, and if he´s your Twin, he will come to you, in an unexpected way, (they always are unexpected, LOL), the key is not to be anxious, and desperate, that is a low vibration, and doesn´t help.
Keep on working yourself, growing, and as your Twin is one with you, he will improve with you.
You can let him go, if the moment requires, he will always come back, that´s all you have to know, to relax and stop the anxiety.
Your bond is unbreakable.
We hope our words really help you in your process, love and blessings 🙂
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Elle said:
Thank you for this. My husband and I found it at the ideal moment… It gave us so much clarity. God Bless. ~Elle http://www.karmicclouds.com
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amore said:
Hi Jasmine,
I know how you feel. Currently I’m am separated from my TF. I have gone through the spiritual change and I have been working on myself and the things I need to heal. I feel so much love for my TF, myself and for others. I have learn to love unconditionally, and I have learned to keep love in my heart and in everything I do. It has been hard because the more I love the more love I have for my twin which make me yearn for him even more. I have not spoken to him in 2 months or even seen him in almost 2 years. In my soul I know he is going through the same thing and I wanna be there for him as well. But I have to stay strong and let him go down his path as I have. I know if it’s time to be together it will happen. Love is patient. Love is kind.
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Deena said:
This is so very informative and I appreciate it so very much!! It has become my daily twin flame “bible”/ guide, as I find comfort in the information given. It helps me make sense of this roller coaster ride. Never have even heard of twin flames but when I developed this unusual attachment and love for someone I didn’t even know, I asked God and the angels for Assistance and answers which lead me to a crash course discovery. This love is amazing but I have also experienced intense pain as I heal myself and learn to love myself. I’m very grateful that my team will show me this is real and I’m not crazy. A lot of times I will see 2 dove birds around me and “11:11” often.
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angave said:
We are glad our blog is helping you to understand more about your connection, that´s really a rollercoaster sometimes, we need to be aware of what is happening to us, and our intention is to bring all the information we can, and through articles and sometimes through our own experiences, to help people walking this beautiful, wonderful and sometimes painful path. Thank you for comment 🙂
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jmarie said:
I love this. This really helps as the dynamics of this is so intense with highs and lows. He recently withdrew outside communication but since then, I am definitely learning more about myself and working on my weaknesses- which are his strengths. The weaknesses and strengths between us are quite obvious. I just wish he didn’t come across so angry towards me at times. However, when we’re in the same room, I am not kidding- it’s like there is an invisible cord between us. If I move in the room, he moves, and there is always a diagonal or straight “line” between us. I don’t think he’s even aware he’s doing it, it’s peculiar and interesting at the same time. I just realize it’s a gift that I got to meet him and even though I agree it’s a rollercoaster, I’m blessed to have met him. It’s been painful and confusing, but the non-verbal communication I’ve experienced with him is powerful & electrifying!
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angave said:
Yes! indeed to meet the Twin flame is a blessing sent from Heaven :), is our reward in this spiritual journey, even f sometimes gets difficult, nothing compares to divine love…
And the non-verbal communication is amazingly wonderful!!!
Thank you for your comment, blessings and Love 🙂
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Nathalie said:
This article is the closest and describe the best What twin soul experience is, the stage the first connection throught the eyes the physical and soul merging, the intense sacred sexuality.
It s beyond and above anything and no one can be ready for this type of experience even they said God-the universe will not send you anything you can’t handle. When I met my twin soul we were pretty much young in this life, that was 18 years ago. We are re-uniting again and yesterday we talked and conclude we most probably knew each other for much longer than that and that we will be together after this life too. We re on the process of deciding to spend out time together in this life and make a it happens in the physical. I m not sure how this will unfold but there is no other choice than surrender and trust the universe will help us on the way, in the most unexpected manners 🙂 This is about right do not give in to the depths of despair and keep reminding yourself during the dark night of the soul, ths is a necessary phase and the relationship will not grow and develop without all the differents phases you will have to go through. This bond is unique and therefore it can t be compared to anything else, it s difficult to put it in words but you have hit the nail with this article. Sexuality is indeed primary raw aside heavenly divine and spiritual, electrifying and intense. There is no other choice but to merge physically and unlike a soul mate relationship the intensity is only increasing with time.
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angave said:
Hi Nathalie, you´re right, indeed we try always to make clear that the process will not advance with desperation, anxiety, sadness and being “stand by”. We need to move on, to detach, surrender to the divine, grow, distract, and trust in the pact we agreed with our twins.
The only way to achieve the awakening of our twins, is to reach our own enlightenment.
And we don´t reach enlightenment when we´re desperate, longing for them, and not accepting to surrender to our Higher selves, Sometimes we require to let go, in order to get ready, to heal wounds, to release fears and develop faith and trust.
Our twin will be ready only when we get ready. If we´re not, they aren´t either, and our reunion will be incomplete. If we have wounds to heal, our twin will reflect them back to us and we can´t blame him for that, it will be his help to make us realize!!!, so, it´s better not to be together if we´re not ready.
And of course, love will be always present , even separated, and will grow, more with time, like you said. We wish you much luck in the next steps in your connection, thanks for your comment 🙂
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jmarie said:
Thank you for the reassurance of letting go. I’m not sure whether I have but my mindset is constantly evolving! I prayed for guidance the past 2 days. I ran into someone who was in class same day as me that he had. and the person I was talking to about the law of attraction at the same place- the synchronicities.
Then I asked for prayers. I got more synchronicities yesterday morning- I was watching tv on the dv-r and his type of car was being advertised & the biggest main song that makes me think of him played, and then the movie he’s in was on tv. Then last night, I had the most beautiful dream about my TF. The synchronicites frustrate me but the dream was very affirming! I wondered if he dreamed about me last night too.
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Cindy said:
How come there is no mention of Jesus Christ? All true twin flames have one thing in common – their unwavering faith in Jesus Christ.
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angave said:
We recommend you to read more articles on this blog, obviously Jesus is mentioned, as an Ascended Master, with his twin flame Mary Magdalene helping Twin flames along the path, included a guided meditation calling their presence and guidance, greetings
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jmarie said:
Do both true twin flames have faith in Jesus? My faith has increased but already have faith in Jesus, it’s like I have an abundance that I probably have enough for the two of us. I had another dream about my twin flame. Seems like I’m dreaming more often about mine in the past five days. Is that common during the Surrender stage?
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angave said:
The faith is something personal. although you are one with your twin, in the physic plane you have different personalities, maybe you´re alike in many things, but maybe as well you could have different beliefs, so is not that important if your twin has got the same faith you have, or not. Like you said, the abundance you have is enough for both 🙂
Regarding to dreams, maybe your connection is getting stronger and you can experience dreams together more often. Enjoy them 🙂
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jmarie said:
Thank you! In fact, when I saw him I was delightfully surprised by a friendly welcome because in the past that has not been the case. Seems like since the outside communication stopped, we seem to get along a little better lately. Maybe that is the why I’m starting to have more frequent dreams of him. So do you think he has dreamed about me too? I can’t ask because in in his perspective my asking him would be inappropiate to ask if he dreams about me.
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angave said:
Probably he did, sometimes dreams are astral meetings, and it´s more common in TF connections, what we can´t assure to you is if he remember the experience, maybe yes, in a subconscious way, it depends on his ability to remember his oniric experiences, :), blessings and love.
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jmarie said:
Thank you. Another thing, he claims he is happily married yet why does he run? Is the TF thng separate? How do the population of us who are already married to someone else keep twin love separate for the ones we made a commitment to? How do we comparmentalize? I do think about this guy more and it’s hard not to. When I fight the thinking, the syncs come up too.
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angave said:
Yes, most of the twins are married or involved in another relationships, but that are agreements they needed to experience in order to grow, lessons to learn, and souls they had to meet during this life because they needed to heal karmic debts, maybe from another lives and it was necessary. But it´s time to be ready to the truth of every soul, and that contracts have to be disolved, it´s the moment to be sincere and finish what is not in resonance with the soul purpose. The Universe will cooperate if it´s necessary, trust in it.
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Vee said:
I am experiencing the same thing, so I understand. Now how best to deal with it? I have no idea, other than what angave said. And I’ve heard it before.
I’ve been married 13 years now, and unhappily (very unhappily so), and we have children. My twin I’ve been aware of for about 6 years now. But really, I’ve been aware of him since I was a small child, but had no idea back then about twin flames, etc. So, being the straightforward person that I am, I’ve told my husband my feelings for this person, but since he never really listens to me anyway, he probably didn’t pay me any mind. I’ve told him several times over the years. Guess it goes in one ear and out the other. I’ve asked him for a divorce on many occasions, but to no avail. At the same time, I feel this tremendous pull toward my twin, and I want to go to him, but what to do?
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furrera said:
Yeah today is hard for me off and on. Its so incredibly hard to see him and not be able to touch him or talk to him besides limited emotional telepathy and eye contact. His eyes show so much love. This process is crazy because two people clearly love each other immensely and “something” keeps us apart. Its not time. Soooo weird compared to a soul mate connection.
-Adeana
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jmarie said:
Yes I know what you mean. Pray for guidance in your dreams…. he’s been in my dreams twice in one week! It’s the best reassurance! I actually was calling out yesterday with even more conviction saying God give me a subtle sign because I don’t want to think about this person anymore! And God definitely gave me a nice subtle sign through this person!
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furrera said:
Jmarie:
I also understand your feelings. We are both married. I recently decided to divorce because this TF relationship revealed to me I’m unhappy in my marriage. I could never love my husband like my TF, and he’s on my mind constantly. The soul mate connection crumbled, but it was already “over” for me. Not sure if my TF is happily married or not. My gut feeling is he’s not either but not sure what he will do.
I read in another blog that if you have met your TF, than any other relationship contracts have expired. TF are brought together for a purpose. The relationship is strengthened and guided by the universe so any amount of running won’t do any good. He will return…
-Adeana
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angave said:
Yes, 🙂 guidance will be always with you, you need to ask for it, and you will receive it, it will give you the strenght you need to go on and keep on trusting and growing.
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angave said:
Yes, that´s a difficult process, because it make us grow and heal, we will be not ready until we get completely healed and when we become whole with ourselves, we can love our twins but not depend on them totally, until we are not aware of this we will be not ready and the path will continue being difficut. We have to learn to love ourselves 🙂
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Mstew said:
This is such a difficult process and I feel such physical pain being separated.
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angave said:
Indeed is difficult and painful to be separated, but as soon we make our work in the self we will see results faster and the pain will end, love and hugs 🙂
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furrera said:
Mstew:
Totally understand!!! I’ve had painful days like that for sure. But now I try to find happiness in knowing we will unite soon. I keep sending my TF love and reassurance. This is a very difficult journey but pretty soon all pain will end and you will find yourself in your TF’s loving arms with the pain as separation as a vague memory that no longer serves you. Love and light to you!! 🙂
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Rachel said:
Understanding your plight with total empathy until seeking help from a lady that deals directly with angels i had never come across the term Twin Flame .Myself and my twin are essentially together but now living seperately and it is this phase i am deperately finding hard i feel like the one that has been left behind .I want so much for a permenant reunion but its like all the karma is still clearing i have never known a love like it. In the past i knew how to let go when something had run its course but this is an attachment like no other its like all the usual earthly rules have been thrown out .It feels insane but beautiful at the same time.
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jmarie said:
Well interesting I’ve joined his class he teaches and I’m starting a 12-step Celebrate Recovery study. So that will bring us closer? Will this impact my relationship with my TF? Gosh so hard to get him out of my head- I think about the last time he looked at me. It’s hard to think he thinks about me as much as I think about him. But it’s very ironic and amusing that 11 months I’ve known him and I’m trying out his class and doing a step study! 🙂 and he works across the street from a 7-Eleven. (Where first met and where I see him ongoing.)- Our birth months His is totals 11 and mine totals 7!
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tazzzie said:
Helloooo & love to all! if you would like my opinion read on…
my feelings are paradoxical towards the twinflame experience on one hand i am grateful for meeting my twin, on the other, well, the aftermath its torture!
thankfully i’ve learnt so much spiritually because of the “separation” – about ego, the 5 dimensions, healing the inner child- i felt these concepts in my being but never really KNEW them and learned about them before the twin flame union.
before i met him i was always spiritual and very open to concepts like the chakra systems, soul mates, past lives have studied psych in university etc but man have i learned SO MUCH about myself because of this somewhat terrible experience.
when i met him i felt no clash or difference of energy just pure familiarity -home- and i was given the message to be patient- so i was at first. we dated & it didn’t make any sense, everything was so effortless it was like the love was already there, it didn’t have to be created. sex was tantric. it was healing.
but after three months, my twin told me his human (tough guy/ insanely talented chef/ 22 yr old/ stoic british bloodline/ immature/ not spiritually evolved) truth. he had known for a yr he was relocating for an incredible job opportunity that would take him away and he never wanted “anything serious” with me, he had only intended to hang out with me for fun, and he was upset because it was clear i was getting attached, things had happened so fast, the energy that had been there he now withheld, denied and told me he didn’t share my feelings.
to me this just seems like someone who genuinely wants nothing to do with me and genuinely never felt anything.
or was it the reaction of someone who felt something overpowering and distrusted it because it was so foreign, withheld from it and retreated out of fear, and obligations?
let me tell you one thing. figuring that last bit out DROVE ME CRAZY/ continues to DRIVE ME CRAZY when i give into it
if i can give the “chasers” one tip it revolves around that
trying to figure out what they are feeling is pointless and as we live in the 3rd dimension which is ruled by individuality, fear, separation and all kind of other bogus
don’t get sucked into the vortex of the 3rd dimension- where they are stuck
we need ascend so they can follow US
if you know there was a connection then it is undeniable
the connection is it’s own validation
when we don’t interfere and they think of us over time on their own and start to acknowledge the connection for what it is they will be just as transfixed by it as we are now
it doesn’t need a relationship to survive
sometimes the time apart away from a relationship will help it THRIVE anew
and a relationship can be a trap for souls that aren’t fully evolved
we have to wait for each other to embrace the higher dimensions
and we have to heal our wounds
so we can clarify our 5 body-systems and be together in the RIGHT WAY
remember
it is not your FAULT it is not their FAULT it just is and that is the truth
if you perpetually blame yourself you will just hurt yourself and if you blame the other you will never forgive the other enough to love them
hope this helps
we will be together when we are ready
don’t let your friends, family or others convince you this is crazy and this is an earthly connection and they just don’t care. don’t let your twin convince you of this either logic and mentality is very much praised in this dimension and we forget how to access our souls for truth, your soul know what you felt in the beginning and know just HEAL HEAL HEAL ask your higher self how and your angels how you will know how 🙂
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jmarie said:
I have to update you! Okay, so earlier this week I noticed he unblocked me on Facebook which I wasn’t going to dare ask but I did try text “are you okay?”
But I decided to block him the following day for my own sense of peace. I saw the person that day and apparently he saw my last message which I had sent a message, a drawing. And he was teaching my son’s class saying you could do something nice like you know make a drawing and give it to them.” I was trying not to laugh!
Then last night I saw him again, Free class= might as well go as often as I can right?
He was sitting down, I’m walking towards. He sees me, asks “Back again huh?” in a sort of indifferent casual tone. I replied “yup.” and then the wierdest thing occurred. Our souls met you could say, no smiling I just paused our eyes met, he looked up at me and it was like time stood still for about 4-5 seconds. I looked into his eyes it was like we gave each other a piercing look. It wasn’t creepy but it was trippy. I could see into his soul. I don’t know what it told me, but it was like nothing else. It felt spiritual and I believe it was our souls connecting!
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furrera said:
Even though I get done telling Mstew to keep your chin up, then my day turns sad. My day started so good and then on the verge of a melt down (could be my twins feelings too). These roller coaster of emotions do get old though. The most difficult part is my TF shows me so much love and won’t take his eyes off me but never attempts to communicate with me. Won’t respond to emails or try to talk at all. Gets frustrating. Sometimes I just wanna throw in the towel and that’s impossible. Really forces us to feel all these emotions but not sure how much more I can take. I can see why people want to run. I’ve felt that way but the thought hurts worse. I just can’t imagine months or even years of this. Universe: Throw me a bone eh?! Pretty please!! Ha!
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angave said:
Trust and faith in TRUE LOVE; you will make it!!! never loose your confidence, and self love, everything will be OK 😉
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jmarie said:
Fuerrera, I get the same thing, the no response. Hang in there, and try not to dwell. Dwelling just feeds on the negative . We have to remember self-love and I constantly ask for God’s guidance. God is my guide and he comforts me and is my strength above anything else. I remind myself that God thinks I can handle the dynamics of such an odd relationship as we all have to keep the push-pull parts in perspective. Weigh the good and the bad. If the good is more than the bad, then focus on the good and not that he doesn’t respond. I hate thinking he wants to play mind games because we should be honest but there must be some kind of guy twin flame characteristic – appear they don’t need us/macho. Mine definitely likes to come across at times as indifferent to me, by doing indifferent gestures.
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furrera said:
Jmarie:
Thanks for the reassurance! Glad I’m not the only one! 🙂
I totally know and feel his love maybe it’s just too weird for a guy to communicate. Especially if they are a little macho. But it’s probably good they don’t talk to us until we are both ready to unite. Otherwise I could see a lot of the push/pull phase happening until the karma is all healed and released…
I’m going to be patient, trust, believe, and show love.
I had that meltdown but it didn’t last long. At least I can snap out of it fairly quickly and get back on track… Thanks to my “soul team.” I thank them often.
Keep me posted on your progress jmarie! These blogs are fantastic so we can reach out and support each other. The TF concept is so foreign and almost “alien” in a sense. The average person doesn’t understand it so in a way, it makes you feel so isolated from the outside world… Xo
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angave said:
Thank you all for your comments, and sharing your steps and progresses, we love to read them, and we are a family, we´re not alone in this, not anymore ❤
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jmarie said:
I’ve had wierd stuff happen the past few days- so my TF had unblocked me on Facebook I discovered about a week ago. I decided to block him for my own peace Thursday night. With me? Then I saw him Friday evening… sees me,says “Back again huh?” I replied “yeah” and then our eyes lock, I look deep into his blue-grey eyes for a few seconds. I wasn’t sure how to describe it, my first thoughts were that it was trippy but later I would call it intense or piercing. The day after this, he injures his knee! I don’t know if blocking him contributed to his injury, I hope not! I was almost hyperventilating when I found out. I’ve been praying it’s not worse than it is! Last night I almost wondered if my look at him, was a sign that he needs to be nicer to me because look at what happened. I’m not sure what it all means, but it makes me want to eventually take the block off!
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Mstew said:
Furrera-
I hope you are feeling better:)
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furrera said:
Thanks Mstew. I am. 🙂
I have good days and then some days are hard and I become tearful and can’t help but to miss my true love terribly. I hope you are feeling better too! How are you coping?!
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drainedx said:
For years i had a guy on my mind constantly and all of a sudden, a few weeks ago I had had an intense week of him surrounding my every thought, i could feel his energy, hear what he was saying to me and dreaming about him. This was all very intense for me I thought i was mentally ill not knowing anything about tf/SM etc etc or tbh, i didn’t believe in Soul Mates but all has changed now 🙂 anyway, it got real bad that i told people i am close to about what i was experiencing and they told me that you can connect with people spiritually etc and feel the energy and that its called a “Soul Mate” I of course did not believe that but, kept listening to what they had to say. I then begin to Pray to God for his guidance and help me get him off of my mind and help me understand what was going on every night before i went to bed and then I guess you could say that he had sent me a sign and I googled “why do i keep thinking about him” and in one blog i had seen someone talk about “Twin flames” and signs and i was gobbed smacked! but it also made me “run” and because i was running it was getting more and more intense and i felt drained and out of energy and just tired of him constantly on my mind and the more i ran the more coincidence’s had happened, it drove me nuts so, again i then googled but this time about “twin flames” and read and absorbed what was written for me to read. The more I read the more understanding i had gotten and the easier all of this became. I realised that I couldn’t run or hide from all this energy so i had to embrace it and am working on “Me”. I have never embraced the word love and never say it yet, every inch of me was yearning for him but for me to admit that I “love” someone is really hard for me to say and now, i say it, feel it and mean it alot more now. I still have a lot more work to do on “me” before we re-unite and thats fine by me 🙂 and now, I am at the bridging stage. This was a very good article to read 🙂 Im reading a lot of these to help understand what I am going through and this one is on point. Thank you for writing this. xx
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angave said:
thank you for reading, always trust your heart, the truth is on there , love and blessings
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drainedx said:
I met my twin a few years ago. At the time of us meeting I was “a closed book” and never let myself feel love or anything emotionally. Our meeting was brief and it was like he had seen something in me that I never saw i guess, he looked me in the eyes and smiled so wide i freaked and looked away and yet, when he left, i felt a sense of me left with him. Scary i thought. From that point on he had constantly been on my mind and i didn’t know why but the last two months, it had been getting rather intense to the point where i thought i was mentally ill. I couldn’t stop thinking about him every second, every minute, every hour of the day, it felt like he was talking to me in my head and id reply and snap myself out of it cause, i thought i was going crazy, i would feel his energy at random times and his name would pop into my mind, I was also dreaming about him and I swear i had visions of him talking to me and it was freaking me out! I was praying to God to make it stop or guide me to understand what was going on and thats where Google came and “Twinflames” emerged from the search engine or “Soul mates” came up. I didn’t believe in such things as Soul mates so i never had a look until i spoke to a few people telling them about my “problem” and thats where “Soul Mate” had come up so, i took this as a sign and let them talk about what a SM is etc etc and they said you don’t need to have a sexual relationship to feel their energy, you can feel it and just that one look into each others eyes can do it and blah blah blah and after I was done talking to that person I ended up going back to google and searching for TF and started reading and everything fitted with everything that my people had said and well as the “symptom’s” i had. The more i read about it the more I ran from it cause Iv never liked “love” so i ran and the more i ran, the more i could feel his energy and the more i felt smothered and the more i wasn’t willing to accept this the more my head filled with the thought of him, the more i could feel his feelings to the point where i could feel his sadness and it made me wanna cry cause my heart was aching and it felt like he was real sad, his unhappiness (don’t think it was cause i was running?) and the more coincidences happened. I begun to read more and more and get a better understanding so, i became to accept this 🙂 the more i have accepted this and started working on “myself” the more better i have become and I guess just knowing what this all is has helped me to understand what i’m going through 😀 reading these blogs have been a godsend cause I thought i was crazy and needed to go to a mental hospital but after realising that this is a common thing through different people, cultures, religions and ethnicities, it gives me a great feeling 🙂 and right now, I am going through the bridging stage which is weird i guess 😀 thank you for the blog, its helped me a lot xx
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sindi said:
Hi! I’m a black women age 26. I’ve known my twin flame for 7 years now. I honestly thot I was mentally ill for a long time till last year wen I began to find out we are twin souls. It has been the most hurtful experience since we both very stubborn but it has lead me closer to God like never before. I think we @ The bridging period since I just let him go due to he is about to have a baby & I didn’t want his baby to grow without a father like we both did. Im feeling a complete shut down from being with other guys bt I can’t b single forever. My sex drive is so low. There isn’t a day where I dnt miss him but accepting things has made it much easier rather then hard. Twin soul love is the most painful love.
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Celia said:
I enjoyed reading the article very much. I have found my twin flame but we are both married and we have not even spoken yet. We both take our children to the same school so I see him often. When I see him and I get home I have great feelings of sadness and loss. I had the same feelings as you describe above, he felt so
familiar, etc but I had no idea why. I was not at all a spiritual person and had never even heard of twin flames etc but I decided to have a past life regression (I didnt even think it was going to work!) To cut a long story short, I had between 10 to 15 past live relationships with this man, all incredibly happy, romantic full of love but the last past live ended with this man dying in a car crash and then myself taking my own life. I have had to go for more sessions as the grief got worse plus questions such as ‘does what happened in the past life have an impact on my life?’ (in the last session ‘she’ told me what she did (taking her own life) has no impact on my life and she was sorry but she could not bare living without him.
All this has changed my life and I feel blessed spiritually but I still don’t know the reason why I have to see this man, why is he in my life, what lessons can I possibly learn from this apart from feelings of sadness and loss on a daily basis.
I have know that each live I have spent with this man was happy and joyful but in this live it is not meant to be.
I know with all my heart that this man is my twin flame. (and that’s coming from someone who was a total sceptic!! x
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Jmarie said:
wow that’s so interesting. I know my twin flame and we’re both married. I don’t know either about past lives. The guy is a charmer but also can be a completely macho. I see mine weekly and I don’t get it half the time either. Feels like he is 2 different people. On the good days he reminds of an eagle and the bad days he reminds me of a strutting vulture!
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Sara said:
I have constantly been seeing double numbers like 2:2, 23:23, 7:7 etc…Is this related to my TF? I also keep seeing an actor (whos not very lead) whenever I switch on the TV, and I literally feel connected through him, to my TF. I feel this is just a sign that my TF looks like this man…….Can this be true or is it my ego?How can I clarify? I have never met him, but meeting with my spiritual gurus have shook me upside down…Whats that?
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ZoeWyldefyre said:
Thank you so much for your article. I have been wondering for a few years now about whether this guy is my twin flame and this article is the best I’ve read about it and really confirms it. It helps knowing what’s going on. I was speaking to him everyday for about 3 months and then he cut me off. Wow, that was one of the most painful times of my life, and yet I had never felt more alive, living with that intense feeling of pain. I resigned myself to this is just how life is now, walking around with my heart torn open, yet the pain did subside over time. I tried to resolve it, end it within myself like you do in a normal relationship, but the love never fades. We have brief contact every now and then but I have to accept that he’s walking a different path right now. Ive had about half a year of not thinking about him and getting on with my life but I’ve had a few ecstatic heart openings lately and all those feelings start rising again along with all the symbols reappearing that remind me of him! Even if I never see him again this lifetime, the love I feel for him and the experience of soul connection has been the greatest gift for me. To all of you struggling with angst and confusion over the separation of you and your twin flame my heart goes out to you. I know how overwhelming and all consuming those feelings and thoughts can be. Even if they are not with you now, know that they can still lead to you to the very depths of your soul and may they return to you xxx
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AIW said:
This essay was very helpful, in a way, you are telling us to surrender to destiny as the tangling of the string connecting us will eventually become untangled :).
I would very much love to tell my story, but… long story short, with this person, whom I cannot have a relation with without hurting a number of persons, it is beyond looking into the eyes, it is completing each other’s sentences, transmitting thoughts and intentions, like I THINK of a question and he happens to answer me, I give him an object without pronouncing a word and he does exactly what I expect him to do, all this just by looking at each other’s eyes and knot with our heads in sing of understanding. Someone talks to him and I know what he is feeling and his following reaction, which happens, he did the same with me too, I was pretending among people that I was not sad for something he knew, he knows who I like and don’t, when I hide a fact or try not to tell the truth, he knows, and wants the truth from me because as he states, I unable to lie, he reeds my mind and I his.
The obstacle, we both have our own family… We both do not want to indulge and hurt our family.
Thanks again.
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lostlove said:
wow its somewhat comfortabing to know other people can understand what im going through. Most people think im crazy, at times ive felt like i was crazy.
I, like most people here are in the separation phase. Im 6 months down the track and whilst i am healing, doing better i get days where i think im doing okay, and bam something comes over me and i have a meltdown.
She is not ready, and i dont know if she ever will be. The more i go over our meetings and our experiences the more everything makes sense in relation to a true TF relationship. I guess i just have to trust the process now. I can still feel her, i see her name everywhere i go, simple things bring me to think of her, i have wonderful dreams about us meeting. I see her and its like an electric vibe around us, we can barely talk and its like something takes our breath away. Eye contact is limited, its like we can see the pain in each other. As much as she will deny it.
Ive finally reached a stage where i am working on myself, trying to limit contact and try and better myself and find a purpose. I have plans for all of this, implementing them should be relatively easy and its good to find the distraction.
Maybe one day she will come back, maybe she wont. Experiencing this type of love, whilst extremely painful is beyond anything you could imagine and something that cant be put into words.
This site has brought me alot of reassurance and trust. Thank you for the ongoing support. 🙂
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furrera said:
You’re not alone sister!! The TF union is so different and painful it’s very obvious in itself the connection. I have had days where I am fine and all of a sudden burst into tears. I could feel his energy and love. It’s tough and painful!! But he’s married. Although I’m dissolving my marriage, I am not waiting for him to figure it out. I chased him big time… Haha! Now I’m in the process of letting go and trying to detach.
The biggest help for me has been the angels. Ask for help with whatever you need. I have received so many answers from them. Basically you needed to live your life NOW and stop thinking of the future and what-ifs. I have given all my faith in this process to the universe/God. I know that if my twin flame and I are meant to be, we will be. If I meet someone else, then I’m going with that. I’m not waiting around. I’m trying to live my life… NEW BEGINNINGS! 😉
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lostlove said:
You seam to have alot more confidence than me. I seam to be going through a phase where i wake at random times (my TF is a shift worker) or something comes over me and i too burst into tears and i often wonder if its something i am feeling about her and mirroring her energy and emotions. I do go through periods of trying to detach and trying to live for the now. I go through periods of if we are meant to be we will be, i just get overwhelmed with my pain sometimes and its hard to think this way.
I need a way to help myself. Ive tried to work out how, and i seem to get stuck. Any suggestions on what i do?
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furrera said:
Everyday is a struggle for me too. I can know the information but in some cases I say, now what?!? I wish I had a personal coach holding my hand through all this and instructing me on what to do now or how to be. The problem is, this process literally turns your life upside down because everything you have ever known to be your comfort or your normal has changed. You literally become a new person and sometimes I am unsure of my new identity so I feel lost. Confused. Not sure how to act anymore or how to be. So I take one step and day at a time.
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lostlove said:
My life has completely truned upside, i am a different person and im not really sure where im going. I used to know, when i was with my TF. Now i just have to focus on my strengths and what i want to do. I feel lost most of the time aswell. Meltdowns are all too frequent, but i am getting better.
We will all get by, one way or another. At some point and who knows how long that will take.
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furrera said:
Lost love:
I will give it my best shot. Lol. But you need to realize I’m not an expert at this and struggle with these things myself. So let’s think about 3d love relationships for a moment. We are conditioned and have beliefs within us (our emotional body) about how things should go. There is a template of love that we perceive and base our feelings/emotions on expectations and what society has engrained into us as “normal.” So when our TF doesn’t do what we EXPECT them to do or if they don’t follow this normal template of love exchange like we are used to, we go into fits. Our emotional body kicks into overdrive and we automatically feel rejected or betrayed by our TF. So when we give our energy to this “so called” hurt that we feel, we keep feeding this aspect and continue to create it. Another words, when you are feeling and thinking you are rejected or betrayed because so-n-so didn’t act in the way you expected them to (3d paradigm), then what are you doing? You are visualizing this deception. This betrayal. This pain. So not are you creating this energy and never ending cycle, but this is now became your new reality. Maybe you don’t know she’s hurting too. Maybe you just aren’t aware of her struggles as well. You both may be feeling the same. But because you don’t know, your imagination has run wild. Basically you are stuck in an illusion which is tied to the emotional body of the 3d paradigm we have all been templated and downlowded with at a very young age. When people talk about healing your inner child they are talking about past emotional pains or situations that you have been carrying around with you, to present. For me, I have rejection issues that happened to me at a young age. So when my TF didn’t respond to me in the way I expected him to, I automatically felt pain in my emotional body (or pain body) and I felt rejected. To me, I created this illusion and was attaching it to my TF. As long as I decide to dwell in this misconception, I am unable to evolve or move on/grow. I’m stuck. I’m thinking it… I’m visualizing it… In my mind, I’m creating it. Also keep in mind that twins are at different levels and they need TIME to get where you are in this process. So practice thinking differently. Separation isn’t a bad thing. We can focus on our own individual growth this way. We are all changing and evolving. The paradigm of love and relationships are also changing. As TF we are the example of this new template. But we have to grow, evolve, and change our thoughts, actions, and beliefs in order to get there. That takes time and much work. Xoxo.
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lostlove said:
Furrera, thank you for that information. I understand, im just struggling to figure out what to do next. Im not sure what issues i would have in relation to “healing my inner child”. I understand the concept of someone not doing something that you expect. I know my mind runs wild, and even if she tells me one thing, i feel something different. I still speak to my TF, despite not things being the same. I am trying to detach and when i do she decides to message me. Just trying to work on my individual growth, through all this emotional pain.
Thanks for your help.
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Holadihey said:
Omg!!
This is the bestest article I’ve read on this, and like many others on this journey, I’ve read a lot .
I’m so in the thick of it and couldn’t make head or tail of this intense intense love longing that I searched it out and came across twin souls.
Yep I’m a bucket case alright
God bless
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Ashley said:
Can you merge with a non-twin flame?
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Hadessa said:
Hi guys, I am really grateful for this site in a big way because I met my twin flame a long time ago, stayed with him for 3 years and we just couldn’t go on together. However there was always that knowing between us. 20 plus years down the line its still there. this site has helped me navigate my life even though I am married to another man and yet my twin flame lingers. I love my husband and I have come to term with the fact that my twin flame love is of another level and nature that we may never realize on this earth. But I am forever grateful for that short period when we were together. Now my biggest problem which I need help with is in helping my twin flame getting over self destructive behavior. We don’t keep in contact but when we do meet we chat here and there, its almost as if the power is too much to even sit down and have a decent conversation. I really want to help him but I also don’t want to cross the boundaries because I respect my husband…..I believe that if we (my twin flame and I) are meant to be together God will make a way for that without hurting the people in our lives. There are times when I feel his despair so much that I have to get up and pray for him….Is there any other way I can help him. He is currently in a new relationship that is not helping the situation. This is not about him being in my life this is about him reaching the rich destiny that God prepared for Him and I am worried that he might not even get there at the rate he is going through alcohol and maybe even drugs. I would appreciate all the help I can get. Thanks much and Be Blessed.
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anga1111 said:
JUst to love him unconditionally, it´s his life and you can give him good advices, but´s up to him to hear them and change himself, ask your Guides in meditation which is the best way to help him, and pray for him, trust that you will be together in divine time and ask for his healing, focus on yourself, and just flow, I don´t know if my words can help you, much blessings and Love.
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Emelia X. Duttry said:
What’s up Dear, are you genuinely visiting this web site regularly,
if so after that you will definitely take nice knowledge.
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Shiloh said:
Hi all! I’ve really enjoyed reading the comments on here and it’s helped me make sense of this TF connection weirdness. I met my TF about 9 months ago and we both felt that electricity and odd synchronicity which made me want to research more. That curiosity led me here:) while it all made sense, I couldn’t also help but feel deeply sad that we will ultimately need to separate to become closer. I had the illusion that we would dance joyfully together through life until the end. Ironic really. Well I’ll become my best self in the process:) I hope more people will find this blog and input their stories because that is truely valuable. Is there any updates on any older posts?!?!?
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Billy chase said:
Hi, I have had my first ever Angel Card Reading today, following on from my Reiki session. I have been experiencing physical health anxiety related to my husband for a number of years now, and am taking 60mg Fluoxetine. Basically, whenever my husband has a headache or cold/cough I get a sick feeling in my stomach and am beside myself with worry that he is going to die. I spend the following days googling all his symptoms it basically consumes me!
Anyway, I was told today that my husband is actually my twin flame and in my last life I lost him, which may explain why I have this anxiety around losing him.
Does anyone know anything about this, or can shed some light on how I can look this up??
This is all new to me, but I feel so positive about this!!
Thanks, Billie
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Darie said:
Reblogged this on Darie's Daily Dish.
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Scottishfold said:
I think i found my twin flame , but we ‘re different religion
What should i do?
and we are now increasingly strained relationship somehow I do not recognize him anymore (as twin flame) and all such tasted bland that is inside of me I try to convince myself that I was fine without him and trying to look good outside but I know that there are others with me somehow as empty and I doubt if he felt the same to me
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Darla Polmas said:
Just a big bold capital letters WOW, I totally get it after reading this post. Thank you very much.
Good night 🙏🏼
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Lou said:
I’m in a Twin Flame relationship. We are both married with 2 kids between ages 6 and 10. I would leave my marriage for him sooner, but he wants to wait until his kids are grown up. I’m married to a grumpy man (karmic relationship). A reputable psychic told me that my TF has every intention of having a true union with me when his kids are grown and have their lives planned out. We’re both 46 years old, so it seems really daunting. I’ll be in my 60’s and wrinkly lol
I think I will leave my husband b4 my TF is ready for true union. I am staying bc my TF is not ready and I wish to save for my kids’ education as much as I can b4 they enter college. I make good money and have a really good pension coming later. I can definitely save for their undergrads on my salary.
The good news is that I have been doing the karmic clearing and have been meditating; clearing my chakras and filling them up with Divine healing. I’m an empath, so it’s pretty easy for me to tap into my spirit guides and Divine love on my own. I never used to meditate, but I really enjoy it.
I’m seeing 11:11, 444, and 333 everywhere ever since I began my intense clearing. I did past life regression and found out that I’ve primarily been an abused woman; well I’m going to heal in this lifetime. I’m going to release my soul from this karma.
This sounds crazy – my soul tells me that I will be in a true union with my TF in this lifetime. My soul has given me this time to clear karma and to learn to love myself unconditionally. I am a survivor of horrible childhood abuse and in past lives (as well as this life), I haven’t loved myself very much. I have settled for second best out of fear of not being loveable.
I guess this is what the TF journey is all about.
Is this my TF mission though? I don’t really understand what my mission is???? I mean, how am I supposed to change the world???
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