Never lose your trust: it is in the moments of doubt, when the whole process stops.
You may not be fully aware of how important your faith in this path.
Your Twin reflects everything back to you, he is your most reliable mirror and nothing escapes from his reflection.
Fears, insecurities , love, trust, full faith (the good and the bad), all reflects back to you, so you must monitor your thoughts carefully.
You can observe your emotions when you feel sad: which thought attracted the sadness? If you can reverse it, do so! To achieve the great change that you need depends on your thought pattern, so harmony will reign in your connection.
Real changes in your thoughts will be reflected by winks of your Twin (small or big signals coming directly from him).
Your Twin Flame and you are ONE, thus; in order for him to come to you, in harmony, you definitely have to get that harmony installed within yourself first!
It will come disciplining your thoughts, the great creators of your life and the events that occur within it, don´t you ever forget this.
Making a sincere examination of them, and being the master of your life, you will be guided by your heart and not by your mind.
You’re in control, be aware of it, your happiness and reunion depend on it. 🙂
Love and blessings.
Angave
Inspired Awareness 
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Thank you Angave 🙂
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This message is so good! Today I was feeling so good about myself and positive, and then this afternoon I began to cry suddenly when thinking of my TF. The thoughts going through my mind at the time were how much I loved and missed him. Then a sadness came over me. I am not sure if these feelings were entirely me or from him as well.
But I do think this message is the most important because our thoughts do carry alot of weight in manifesting energy. I know that we should try to be positive no matter how depressed or painful it becomes, even though it is hard. It is certainly a good goal to have. See the good in all things. I will work on that!! Thank you!
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Indeed, that´s an internal job to do, it´s hard to be thinking positive all the time, but through emotions we can find out which thought triggered them.
So, we can transmute it, replace it with the opposite, with time we´ll see our progresses, we have to pay close attention. Another good tool is meditation, if thoughts and emotions become a mess, we can try it, soft music and relax help as well.
It´s hard but not impossible, we have to train our minds :). thank you for your comment, blessings.
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This blog arrived in time.last 3 days my mind has been playing games. My TF and I are not in touch. He appears and dissapears. But 3 days back I had this terrible sensation, which which were caused due to my hyper imagination according to which my tf was having time of his life and I was rotting in hell. My barin went ona wild goose chase , I had throbbing pain, dint go out of the house, felt broken and terribly sad with no proof of what my imgination suggested. Today at midnight I read your blog and my faIth is again restored that someone high up is guiding all of us who are connected through this . A sense of peace has taken over and shunned all the voices in my head. Thank you so much for sharing ..blessings and love.
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Phoenix:
I totally understand how you feel. My mind runs with crazy ideas from denial, to I’m made a fool, to feeling embarrassed in my actions or feelings about my TF. I will get so anxious sometimes when my ego has a chance to run or deny the connection. I am grateful for these blogs and I am grateful we have each other to lean on and remain strong. In doubt, I ask my soul family/team (angels, spirit guides, God), to show me signs and synchronicities to prove I’m not crazy and on the right path. I will see dove birds, 11:11 often, and the other night I was talking out loud to myv”team” stating my disbelief at times and the song “mirrors” by Justin Timberlake came on. That song is about TF relationships. Keep your chin up. Let’s lean on one another!! 😉
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Thank you both, Phoenix and furrera, to share your experiences. We´re all living the same, and we can lean on each other,
The process will keep progressing, as soon as we clean, grow, heal ourselves, at every moment,
By the experience we will know exactly the changes we need to make to really advance in the path and not to get stuck.
Like change the thoughts patterns. Listen to your heart instead of your mind.
Mind is good to create stories that doesn´t even exist and charged of negativity and disbelief. pay attention to the feelings, and ask yourselves sincerely: where does it come from? heart? mind? ego? conditionings from the past? old wounds not healed?
we´re learning to know ourselves, and to make changes for good, to gain confidence, faith , trust, during this process.
We send you love, and much light to illuminate your path, thank you for being there 🙂
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Thank you!!! I was going to say to Phoenix or anyone else if you read a blog from furrera, Deena, or AMF it is all me. I guess I should keep the same username. Haha.
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Oh!!! thank you for telling us 😛 LOL
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Thanks Angave & furrera for giving me a shoulder to cry on .. 😉 speaking to other people is futile as they generalize the process. Its really a relief to know there are people who are experiencing the same thing as you. I feel my personal learning is unconditional love for TF and self love. For me the most torturous thing is to get dreams or imagine him being with someone else /married to someone else etc. When such things pop up in my head without any evidence in the real world ( at least i don’t have any evidence) , it gives rise to self doubt as if i am not good enough and the delay in the process is because of me. Its a torturous though and interferes in my regular life , my interaction with peers , family where they get to bear the brunt for my mood swings. They have no clue whats going inside is nothing short of a volcano waiting to erupt. Actually i have no control over this process whatsoever i know deep down and i should surrender.But as you know its easier said than done. The poisonous questions that make my life a hell include what if he gets married? will i be alone and in love with him all my life knowing i will never be one with him? Will i be able to put someone else in his place which i know will never be the same ever? The thoughts such as these go on till the time they have sucked the last drop of positivity and i have to surrender as my mind cannot take the thought anymore. That’s when i get a sign or message that this is not a usual process and that i am up for a painful experience which my life is putting in front of me and i have to go through this and face it as it comes even if it kills me each moment. Just 4 days back after 2 months, my TF called me twice and i missed the call. On one hand i was happy , but it all dissolved in pain when he knowingly did not respond to my call backs. You will not believe this but even without speaking to him i had a felling that he was in our home town (stays outside country) which is true as i came to know later. What did he want to say to me? was he going to inform me of some other commitments he has? Why he doesn’t seem to respond even in a casual note when actually he called me and not otherwise? The weird behavior to first call and then be quite all through is killing me. I know there could be karmic debts which i am paying for as pain only purifies and there is no running away. I will have to face it without any distractions which i may badly want to divert me from this but there aren’t any (sometimes i beg for a soulmate to come my way just to help me out here). while i write this , somewhere i feel as if i was the chosen one to go through this and put up an example of patience , faith and love ( donno if i will be able to go up to the last rung 😉 ) Last 3 years i would go mad finding solutions on net and would end up on blogs like ‘ dont trust you TF , they could be near twins and not TFs’ or ‘ all this is a fragment of the mind and nothing for real’ but trust me , after finding this blog i know the universe talks to me through you. I am so very thankful. Sorry for the long post…please bear with me 🙂 love…
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Omg. Yes. Yes. And yes to all you feel. I have even gone so far as think I am the victim. Going to decide to hide. To close. To run. From who… Really?! ME!!
So my TF and I are both long time married with kids. No conversation but the eye contact, telepathy, and body language is amazing to say the least. Yeah. Don’t know him. But I know him. …. My soul does anyhow. After a small case of running and me as the chaser, I figured it out. I was enlightened. I have no idea where he is in all of this … But I’m leaving a 16 year Union not for My TF necessarily, but because the mirror reflection showed me I’m unhappy in my current relationship. Talk about faith! I’m trusting my heart, soul, and feelings to leave a long term marriage with 4 kids. Not for my TF, but for me. My happiness and self love. I take one day at time. Live in the moment. Not the future. Your moment, step, and truth NOW is your future
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We are with you Phoenix, and we know how weird our TF behaviour could be, sometimes they can be very close and warm, and in another moments to become an ice block, LOL, but they are passing through difficult moments, exactly like we do. They don´t even know what is really happening to them, they´re overwhelmed by their own feelings and scared about them. Their biggest fear is to loose themselves in us, to surrender to the immense love they´re feeling and after loose us.
They know we love them, but they have doubts, their love is strong and they are afraid about our love, they think: what if she only wants me for a while? what if all that immense love she says she feels about me is like a big flame and after burning it fades away?
remember they are passing through their own hell…so, let´s comprehend them and send them a lot of love, and light to their minds and hearts, to believe in themselves and in us.
Meanwhile we´ll keep on growing, and developing our own trust, in us, in them, in the Universe and everything will fall into place.
Remember to take control of your thoughts as well :). love and blessings
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Yes., furrera, you have to live the NOW, and trust in the process, everything will be ready when you both get ready, you have to focus on yourself, to be true to yourself and resolve your situation (your current relationship), you have to let go that person, probably he is a soul mate, and he came to teach you lessons, you have to give him thanks, and let him go, you need to be sincere with him and with your own truth, you´re unhappy and it´s not fair if you don´t love him to be with him. He deserves somebody who really love him, I´m sure that person will appear :), when you really clear your path, your twin will receive unconsciously your strenght to do the same, to be free of relationship that already ended. That only continue for any or more causes (kids), is understandable, but everybody is suffering, including kids, with parents that really don´t love each other and are always sad.
Remember to keep living in the present with plenty confidence, you and your twin will be together, it´s meant to be, and love always find the way.
Love and blessings
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